My Bunco Ya-Ya's and Me
In my mind today, I'm thinking about Laughter, Lights, and Love. God blessed me with two of the best biological sisters this little sister could ever ask for. We love unconditionally. When one hurts so does the others. I'm so grateful for the hearts my mother nourished in each of her children. Through her strong belief, faith, and hope in God, she created something stunning from her strife as a predominately single mom. She helped us to laugh at our troubles as we grew. She shined her love-light in so many ways that gave us examples of kindness. She showered us with a fierce love that soaked into our souls. God has also granted me sisters in Christ. I have been given writing & book-loving buds, childhood comrades, college cohorts, Alley Alliance warriors, committee cronies, Parish pals, teaching chums, neighbor friends, and Bunco buddies. In each season and chapter of my life, I have and am still blessed beyond measure.
Last night we had our Christmas Bunco Blast at another "sister's" new business, Holy Cow. It's located in the quaint, cozy town of Trimble, Tennessee. This group of Bunco "sisters" has been playing together for one score and two years. Students, remember how many years are in a score? Back row, I'm not talking about a Monday night football score! Listen! That's right front row! Twenty! Add the two and voila, we have shared twenty-two wonderful years together. We've been "sisters" through having babies, divorces, retirements, deaths, job changes, moves, our kid's going to college and getting married, and now our season has the joy of grandchildren. A couple of Bunco Buddies have great-grandchildren. Our age range is a broad spectrum, but that just adds to the spice of our crew. Our little group has shared so much of each other's pain, happiness, and love. We are the "Ya-Ya's" of Bunco and we have oh, so much fun.
Last night, the Light of the season was in us all. I laughed hysterically at our antics. Tears of happiness rested in my eyes the entire night. My heart was filled with so much Light, Laughter, and Love for these "sisters." I'm ever so grateful for each one of them. They are each unique and wonderful in their own ways. While my weakness in my body continues, our sisterhood grows stronger still. You see when you face life's hardest moments true friends stay. The rest of the world may sadly walk away in the face of adversity, but not my Bunco Ya-Ya's. They have walked with me through my "new normals" of ALS/PMA. From putting up temporary ramps to feeding me, they brain-storm ways to keep our Bunco Train chugging. I know they will for as long as I have breath in me. We are "Sisters" to the end.
Students, I pray you find God-given siblings in this life. They are truly priceless. If you have some, make time this advent to spend precious moments with them. If you haven't, then get busy and reach out. Embrace those around you at work or church. Start your own Ya-Ya group! Before you know it, the Laughter, Lights, and Love will traverse scores of time.
So students, this week's theme for Advent is Light of the Holy Spirit. As we journey through this week of activities, obligations, and bustle, don't just plug in your Christmas lights on your trees. Be sure that the one you light up first is the Light from above, the Holy Spirit. It was a gift given to mankind over 100 scores ago. It's in your heart. Be sure to plug it in and let it shine.
Sarah Anderson Alley
Sal the Heart-light Gal
Dedicated to all of my Bunco Buddies
Thanks for Dot's message and reflection from her latest retreat!
Quotes of the Day:
"Friends show their love in times of trouble, not in happiness."
"Friends are the siblings God never gave us."
"Walking with a friend in the dark is better than walking alone in the light."
"It is one of the blessings of old friends that you can afford to be stupid with them."
Ralph Waldo Emerson